Is a Long Term Relationship Really Necessary?

Can you be an escort in London and continue in a committed, long-term relationship? This is a question a close friend posed to me the other night, completely out of the blue. But why now? I suspect it’s because she’s thinking of becoming an escort herself but I didn’t push her on it: I’m sure she’ll come to me for advice in her own good time.

Anyway, to answer her question – it all depends on who the long-term partner is of course. When I first started as a professional London escort I was living with a man in a rented apartment at the time. He understood my reasons for wanting to become an escort – I was bored with my 9 to 5 and craved excitement in my life. Don’t we all? The only difference is, I was prepared to act on it.

After a few nights debating the subject my partner actively encouraged me to make a go of escorting. However, things didn’t go well between us and within a few months our relationship was history. I was having such a good time in my new job and going out so often that I hardly even noticed the split (which obviously said something about our relationship at the time – I can see that now).

He met someone else, is now happily married with a kid and still living in the same area of South London where he grew up. Good luck to him I say but I can’t help feeling I had a narrow escape. Since becoming an escort I find my life is so fulfilled that I don’t actually crave a relationship any more. I’m half in love with a handful of my clients. It’s ok to say that I reckon because I’m too professional to ever act on it – and they respect the boundaries too.

So, I have the pleasure of looking forward to meeting say five or six clients I really respect and enjoy spending time with every couple of months and who are never going to pressure me into a long term relationship, ask me to do their washing or make their meals. Quite the contrary in fact, I see them so seldom that they love to treat me when we do meet up. I’ll often find a little bottle of my favourite perfume left on my dressing table or I’ll open the fridge and there’s a bottle of Crystal in there chilling and the tag tied around the neck of the bottle has my name written in italics on it. Ladies – some of my clients are very classy.

In between times I get to spend evenings with my girlfriends. And there’s no-one asking me what time I think I’ll be home at and whether I’ll be free to have dinner with his parents on the Sunday…

Blog With Respect Girls!

Have you noticed how just about everyone and his uncle has a blog on their website these days? Now, no doubt you’ve noticed that there are a few escorts in London who have a popular blog too. Some of these blogs are great; really interesting and I particularly like the way they ‘tell it like how it is’ ie they don’t misrepresent the escorting profession.
A few others, however, are a bit ‘out there’ in the sense that they don’t tell how the world of escorting is at all. What I mean by that is they really don’t do the girls, or the client, justice. But then, maybe the experiences of these particular escorts aren’t the same as mine? There’s no easy way to tell really. Certainly I’ve nothing nasty to write home about – quite the opposite; I love my job and genuinely look forward to meeting up with the majority of my clients.
Some of these ‘nasty’ blogs I’m referring to can be quite slanderous and not particularly flattering about clients (even though both the clients and the escort remain anonymous) but still, it must put clients on edge I would have thought and which, considering they are paying for the escort’s services (and pretty well too) they’re getting what I’d say is a pretty raw deal.
I do have a website and of course I’m one of the London escorts who write regularly for this very blog that you happen to be reading right now. But, I would never bring a client into any blog post. That’s because I feel that one of the top priorities of my job is to be discreet. And even if the client isn’t being mentioned by name there’s always a chance that they might come across the blog one day while trawling the web and recognize themselves. If it’s a flattering post, all well and good; but if it’s the opposite then, that’s disrespectful and definitely breaking what I regard as the ‘escort code.’
What I’m trying to say is that there has to be a ‘happy medium’ between an interesting blog post and the client’s respect and privacy. No client goes to an escort expecting to be written about on the web so come on girls, let’s have some decency. After all, I know a few escorts who have received unflattering reviews and boy have they been fuming about it. Fair’s fair! The internet is NOT the place to air grievances!

It’s All About Trust

There is a dilemma my clients are often faced with – and I do not really know how to sort it for them, to be honest. It concerns gifts and me. Not a dilemma that bothers me, admittedly J. But my regular clients are well aware that as a highly sought-after escort in London I am used to getting lots of monetary treats. More than I can handle sometimes (am I allowed to say that without offending anyone?).

Anyhow, their dilemma is that they want to show me they are a special client ie something above the norm – not like all the rest. So, they want to give me something different gift-wise. Well ladies, we have all had enough perfume and chocolates till it feels as if they’re coming out our ears. Jewellery – yes, I am definitely a precious stone type of gal. But, there has to be a purpose behind it ie I like gems to mean something in the sense that they should mark a special occasion.

So, when a man wants me to remember him, what should he gift me, he wonders. Well, how about – and I know this sounds unbearably soppy – a little of himself ie I love it when clients tell me something that they have never revealed to anyone else before in their life. That could include maybe a confession from childhood or even a current love/hate relationship that they can’t reveal to anyone else in their circle due to an issue with trust. They know their secret is safe with me. I particularly love it when a client just opens up and lets his emotions flow ie that he feels so safe with me that he knows it is not going anywhere and that I will respect him whatever he chances to tell me. Sometimes I have had clients break down in tears. I listen, then I console. That is a big part of our job, girls!

I am excellent at keeping confessions and revelations. I would not be a good London escort if I wasn’t. Because ladies – that is all part of the job too, in the sense that what happens or is said between me and client says between me and the client. I think that’s often something that young escorts new to this game in particular need to learn. Your clients are opening their souls to you and that needs to be respected. They have to know they can trust you. And the best escorts in London never break that trust. Ever.

Making a Very Comfortable Living

“How can you possibly make a living from London escort work?” Yes, girls – believe it or not that is what one client asked me with a completely straight face just the other week there. I looked at him incredulously and replied: “You are kidding, right?!”
I am not sure what his profession was as we did not discuss it during our monthly trysts, but I got the impression he was some kind of high-level engineer. I wanted to tell him I probably made more than he did but that seemed a little cruel considering he was a man who regularly put in a gruelling 10 to 12 hour day whereas I maybe work three hours a day tops.

But perhaps I under-estimate the hours I put into my profession as an escort in London. After all, there is the upkeep of ‘me’ I have to do such as get regular pedicures, manicures, waxing and haircuts as well as go clothes shopping at least once a week. Are you getting jealous yet ladies? ;) . Yep, I would be too if I had not swapped my 9am to 5pm banking teller job for the life of a world-travelling escort. Yes, really – I do travel frequently, to meet clients. This year alone, for instance, I have been to Rio, Brussels, Norway, Portugal and northern Spain.

The best bit about my job though is being able to set my own schedule, ie to work when I want to work; not when some corporation insists I do. We are not all morning people, I’m very much a night owl as it happens, so my job suits me to a T. It means I am doing what I love when I am at my best – not sitting bleary-eyed at a teller wishing I was anywhere else but there (mainly still in my bed sleeping).

I also love what I do now to earn a very comfortable living and this attitude change definitely comes across in my work. I regularly see delighted clients return again and again (and often showering me with little gifts such as perfume and lingerie to show their appreciation). If I was miserable in my work then that definitely would not be happening. During my bank days I could usually expect at least two customers shouting at me on a daily basis and the best pat on the back I could hope to have received would have been a measly 2 per cent pay rise at the end of the year.

So, how do I earn a living these days? Easily and with a huge smile on my face!

Monaco and Miss Moneypenny Beckons

I have been looking forward to finally saying good riddance – or should that be au revoir – to the bleakest two months of the year and embracing spring in all its glory. And I’ll bet you have to. So anyway, can we count March 1 as Spring? In my book – yes!
But it is not just the turn of the weather that is getting me champing at the bit as it were. No, there is the 10-day long trip to Monaco I have planned with Mr Mega Broker whom I met last summer while working as an escort in London (me, not him!).
This rather handsome and svelte middle aged gentleman (who has no time to meet women, he says) has been working extremely hard to push through some sort of international luxury retail deal the last couple of months and reckons he needs this little fortnight’s break to recharge his batteries (batteries? The rate he gets through life I would have thought a dynamo more appropriate!).

Still, the lovely man is determined to soak up some rays next week, sample some exquisite cuisine and take a turn on the tables at the casinos. And he has asked me to accompany him! Well, what is a girl to do? You didn’t really think I was going to say ‘no’ did you? Not with the weather in the capital in recent weeks.
And anyway there was nothing holding me back for fortunately I have a very understanding boss (ie me). So there was absolutely zero chance of me missing out on this fab trip. Granted it is not the Maldives (where I was popping off to this time last year with another client) but Monaco certainly has something about it… romance, glitz, James Bond lookalikes etc (shall I take my vintage horn-rimmed Miss Moneypenny spectacles with me? Actually I am sure Mr Mega Broker would like that).

I have already been researching the location on the odd rainy afternoon and no doubt about it, I have hit it really lucky this time. And the best bit? We are going there via cruise ship. Knowing me and my love of massages and pampering I will be completely spa’ed out by the time the ship docks but there are worse ways to travel and certainly worse ways to spend the first 10 days in March. Sure, I will be working lots as a London escort when I get back to make up for the vocation but we will think about that when I return shall we?

Stop, Look and LISTEN

My girlfriends ask me all the time, “What is the thing you like most about being an escort?”
“What, apart from the money you mean?” I always shoot back at them. Seriously, it is great being independent and being able to fund a certain lifestyle through the money I make as an escort, but I also do it for other reasons.
I actually really enjoy meeting people and I meet all kinds of interesting and intriguing people through my work as an escort. I meet men – businessmen, single men, married men and I meet women and I treat all my clients the same. I find out what they want, I work out their needs and desires and I do my best to oblige.
My very, very best.
My mother taught me long ago that what most people want at a very basic level is to be listened to, so I endeavour to listen to all of my clients. Often people book an escort out of sheer loneliness. Perhaps they find themselves alone in a big city and they can not face staying in their hotel room all alone, so they look up escorts in London. Or maybe they find themselves on their own after a relationship breaks up and they miss physical intimacy.
Or maybe it’s just that we London escorts are such good company and enjoyment of events, nights out, trips to new and exciting venues is so much more intense when enjoyed by two of you, instead of one?
Proper listening is what so many people do so badly. Many people can make themselves look as if they are listening, but in reality they are thinking about their work, or the programme they watched on TV last night, whether or not their train is going to be on time or what they plan to eat for dinner that night. Actually listening to the words and absorbing them takes concentration.
I have worked on that concentration for years and years, it is useful for what I do. If a client wants someone to listen, I can listen to them and I will add comments or advice (if that is what my client wants) or I will just nod and be supportive. Again, often people just want their story to be told and they do not necessarily want advice.
I often think listening is the skill so many people lack – again, a saying my mother taught me was that we have two ears and one mouth for a reason. If only more people listened, and listened properly. Wouldn’t the world be a better place?

How to Spoil Your Man This Valentine’s Day

Ladies, let’s just say that I know a lot about love, romance and passion so if you are looking for expert advice for how to please a man this Valentine’s day you have come to the right place. London escorts know the ways of Eros inside out.

I know it is very old-fashioned and men are easy creatures to please, but lovely underwear is a must for Valentine’s day. I think beautiful underwear is a particular gorgeous surprise if you are the type of woman who usually sticks to comfortable, supportive bras and big pants most of the time. Imagine your man (or woman, we escorts in London are very open-minded) when he or she peels off your clothing to reveal soft, sensual silks which cling to curves, highlight gleaming skin and tantalisingly tempt…

I always make sure my skin is buffered, tanned and soft to the touch – so I advise you to do the same. Soft skin is immediately kissable skin and who does not want to be kissed all over? From the throat downwards, the kiss is such an erotic experience and you want to make sure that the mouth encounters soft, delicious skin.

Chocolates and flowers are clichés too of course, but I do not know many women who do not like them or feel gratified when they receive them. If you are a woman and you are wondering what to give your other half for Valentine’s day, I reckon giving flowers and chocolates to your man may come as a lovely surprise. Choose a plant or open the front door to your man dressed in underwear with a flower between your teeth and you will get a reaction.

Then there are the chocolates. Perched on places on your body, you can encourage your man to eat them from wherever you want his mouth to go, the obvious and the not so obvious.

Finally, if you are a giving kind of woman who wants to give her man a very special treat, we escorts in London can often be booked for couples. It is the perfect way to add a little excitement to your relationship and I have worked with countless couples over the years (and same-sex couples as well). I can vouch for the fact that they always leave my apartment with a big smile on their faces and a renewed appreciation for each other.

Making a Very Comfortable Living

“How can you possibly make a living from London escort work?” Yes, girls – believe it or not that is what one client asked me with a completely straight face just the other week there. I looked at him incredulously and replied: “You are kidding, right?!”
I am not sure what his profession was as we did not discuss it during our monthly trysts, but I got the impression he was some kind of high-level engineer. I wanted to tell him I probably made more than he did but that seemed a little cruel considering he was a man who regularly put in a gruelling 10 to 12 hour day whereas I maybe work three hours a day tops.
But perhaps I under-estimate the hours I put into my profession as an escort in London. After all, there is the upkeep of ‘me’ I have to do such as get regular pedicures, manicures, waxing and haircuts as well as go clothes shopping at least once a week. Are you getting jealous yet ladies? ;) . Yep, I would be too if I had not swapped my 9am to 5pm banking teller job for the life of a world-travelling escort. Yes, really – I do travel frequently, to meet clients. This year alone, for instance, I have been to Rio, Brussels, Norway, Portugal and northern Spain.
The best bit about my job though is being able to set my own schedule, ie to work when I want to work; not when some corporation insists I do. We are not all morning people, I’m very much a night owl as it happens, so my job suits me to a T. It means I am doing what I love when I am at my best – not sitting bleary-eyed at a teller wishing I was anywhere else but there (mainly still in my bed sleeping).
I also love what I do now to earn a very comfo

rtable living and this attitude change definitely comes across in my work. I regularly see delighted clients return again and again (and often showering me with little gifts such as perfume and lingerie to show their appreciation). If I was miserable in my work then that definitely would not be happening. During my bank days I could usually expect at least two customers shouting at me on a daily basis and the best pat on the back I could hope to have received would have been a measly 2 per cent pay rise at the end of the year.

So, how do I earn a living these days? Easily and with a huge smile on my face!

Divulge your latest fantasies with the ladies of Discreet

You may not have heard of us before. That is because Discreet London Escorts is a completely new website and this is the first post on our brand new blog. So, “Welcome – and thanks so much for dropping by”.

We created Discreet, a site for upmarket and elegant girls as London escorts because we felt there was a market there. In other words there was a bit of a gap that needed to be filled and we knew we could do just that. And we have already been thanked for it so much that, come this point, we are already bursting with pride…

We are a group of girls who all have an exotic background. Most of us are from Brazil, Argentina or other hot Latin countries. As a result we tend to have honey and bronzed coloured soft skins, dark hair and chocolate brown eyes – although you will also find the odd gorgeous blonde and ravishing red head amongst us.

We Latins are known for our vibrant and tempestuous personalities mixed in with lots of unbridled passion. And the stereotype on this one is true! You are certainly guaranteed plenty of excitement with our girls if you book one of us when looking for an escort in London.